Date Ideas – Where To Take Your Sugar Baby

Date-Ideas---Where-to-take-your-sugar-babyHaving a sugar baby means you are ready, willing and able to have fun, to live life to its fullest. The fact that you have a sugar baby is proof positive that you are willing to undertake this task. The question is; where do you take her? There are several things to consider when deciding where to take your sugar baby for a night on the town, a weekend getaway or a fun day trip.

One of the most important things to consider is her personality. She is your sugar baby. You have spent many hours together in person, on the phone and online. You know what she likes to do and what she considers fun and relaxing. Use this to your advantage. Listen to the things she says, even if it isn’t about dates or trips or things to do. Really listen, and hear what she says. Pay close attention to things she has enjoyed in the past that still linger in her mind. Listen for hints of things she’d like to do, places she’d like to go and things she’d like to see. Use a little creative thinking to incorporate her likes into a place she has never been.

Another thing to keep in mind is her weekly timetable. When does she work? How rigid is her work schedule? How much notice does she need to take off for a day, a night or a week? This part of the planning is essential. She may be young but that doesn’t mean her days are wide open. Younger women today have full lives and often resent being surprised with a big date. If it has to be a surprise make sure you tell her just enough to peak her interest but still feel in charge of her own life. She may attend school, take care of children or loved ones or have a demanding job. Taking her life into consideration when making a plans will ensure the date is as pleasant as you hope it will be.

If It’s a Frist Date, Make It Special

The whole ballgame changes, if this is your first date. First dates are tricky because you don’t know very well yet. You may have had some online contact or telephone conversations but they are limited when it comes to getting to know someone. A great first date would be somewhere simple, local and familiar. Choose a place where she can be comfortable. If she is comfortable, it makes it much easier for the two of you to relax and get to know each other. Conversation is easier and more open. It is also much easier to create a physical bond when you are both in a comfortable, nonthreatening environment. Chose a place in general neighborhood she lives in. Nowhere to far away. Dinner and a movie is an old standby that always works. It is a comfortable, easy way to begin a relationship. The restaurant doesn’t have to be pricey or upscale. It should not be fast food or a roadside food vendor, but something new for her in a cuisine she enjoys.



Local Attractions Can Offer A Lot

If you’re looking for something a little different but want to maintain the comfort zone you have achieved in your communication, try a local attraction. Take her to a classic car museum, an art show, a craft bazaar or open market. Strolling hand in hand through a park, zoo or aquarium can build a repertoire between you too that is hard to accomplish on the phone or in a crowded bar. It fosters a closeness and an ease of communication that you can build on for the future.

Places That Should Be Avoided

There are many, many places to take a sugar baby that will make her eyes sparkle and her heart warm but there are few places you should never, ever take your sugar baby on the first few dates. No matter how close you are to your family, or how cool you think your brother is, do not take your sugar baby to a family function. The sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship is tenuous. Even the most well-meaning of family and friends do not always understand. The first few months of these kinds of relationships should be family-free. It is imperative to first build a strong relationship between the two of you before allowing others to be aware of it. Family reunions, birthday parties and holiday celebrations are horrible dates for a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship. When it is time to let your family know about your sugar baby, it should be done privately, without her present.


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