Everyone dreams of having amazing and exciting sex, but what do you do if your sugar baby is well, too kinky? You never thought that would, or could be a problem, but here you are feeling uncomfortable about the things that she is doing not only to you, but to herself. If you want to tell her to tone it down a bit but not embarrass her, or make her feel stupid, there are ways of communicating your desires without being straightforward or hurtful. It is not okay to engage in sex that one, or the other partner, is not okay with. Finding a way to meet somewhere in the middle is the best way to find a satisfying sex life for you both.

The book 50 Shades of Grey did many things to the mainstream attitudes about sex, chief among it is that it made dominatrix and other kinky sex habits less exclusive. If you are with a woman who likes to really turn up the kink in bed, it may be making you feel like it is too over the top. It is okay if you are not into the kinky sex that she is initiating, it doesn’t mean that you can’t continue with your sex life. There are ways that you can find a happy medium to enjoy sex together.

What is considered kinky?
Sex is something that can make you feel vulnerable and naked. Well, the truth is that most of the time you are naked, but this is a different type. We all have our own sexual fantasies, likes and dislikes, but we worry too if they are normal, or abnormal. Everyone has that turn on that they may keep to themselves because they are fearful that it is too much, too out of the ordinary, or just too not normal. Kinky sex can range in various ways from outlandish to downright scary. Labeling something as kinky is really a subjective thing. What is kinky to one person may not be to another. The problem is when one person is not okay with what the other person finds enjoyable.

Step it up a little
If you are someone who has always been more conservative in the bedroom, it may be liberating to try something new. Everything new always feels awkward and a little, well, scary. It is alright to step lightly into new sexual forms and types. Sometimes it just takes a little getting used to. If you like the person you are with, who knows you may actually find that you enjoy some of the things that she is suggesting. It is alright for you to step out of your comfort zone once in a while. Let someone else take the lead and sit back and watch. Just like different types of foods you will never know if you like something until you try it.
 

 
Try to tone her down
It is okay to let your partner know that it is going just a little fast for you. The best thing is to have communication that is honest and open. Try not to say things that are offensive or to make her feel like what she likes or is doing is in some way wrong, or abnormal. That is a surefire way to send her packing. It is okay to suggest that you try something just a little less than whatever it is that she is suggesting. Learning to meet half way will help of you to get her to tone down her kinky while maybe at the same time you rising to the occasion.

Just because two people have different sexual likes and fantasies does not mean that they can’t have a fulfilling and exciting sex life. Just proceed with caution. If you think your sugar baby is too kinky for your comfortability it is okay to let her know. It will never work if you make her feel ashamed or embarrassed though. Make sure to let her know that you accept her for who she is and that sex is a personal choice. You are just choosing to be a bit more reserved.

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