When the sugar is no longer sweet: Signs it’s time to end it with your sugar baby

When Is It Time To End It With Your Sugar Baby?You did it. You took the plunge and decided to explore the lifestyle of a Sugar Daddy. It was wonderful at first. You felt alive for the first time in a long time. The sex was liberating and it was all one big adventure. Now things just aren’t feeling right. You can’t quite put your finger on it, but you think it may be time to end your current relationship. Before you toss away all the time, effort, and (let’s not forget), money you have invested with your sugar baby, take a few moments to see if any of these warning signs have started to set off your “run as fast as you can” alarms. If so, it very well could be time to say “goodbye”.

  • She’s spending lots of secret time online or on her phone: You met your sugar baby online. Keep in mind that someone else can meet her that way as well. When you first started on your mutually beneficial relationship, you didn’t have to worry about her pulling out her cell phone every few minutes to check her email or text messages. She was focused on you and your time together. Now things have changed; every few minutes there’s a chime from her phone and she giggles and has to make a call or return the text. “It’ll only take a minute” she says, as she gets up to go somewhere more private. She’s already taking applications for the next sugar daddy. Your time is at an end. Don’t let her drain you for whatever she thinks she can still get out of you. Next time she excuses herself, excuse yourself…for good.
  • She keeps asking for more money: If it’s in your ability to help out financially, then go ahead and do it, but don’t be a sucker. If she keeps having “emergencies” every couple of weeks that require you to break out your checkbook, then it’s probably time you cut your losses and go your separate ways.
  • The sex ain’t what it used to be: She’s started turning down your requests to “try something different” or maybe even to try anything at all. Admit it, this was one of the biggest reasons you became a sugar daddy in the first place. If it’s not working out in the bedroom then what’s the point? Sure it’s great to be able to have fun in all the other aspects of your relationship, but if you can’t make it click in the more intimate areas of your time together, why keep trying? Find a sugar baby who’s more open to what pleases you. There’s plenty more out there. Just do a Google search. You’ll see what I mean.
  • Violence: You should have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to this. If she ever gets physically violent with you, leave. Take out a restraining order on her and put her out of your mind. She may promise to change her evil ways. She may even do it. You’ll never know. You’ll be long gone by then. Life is too short to spend even one more minute with this type of unstable woman.
  • Stalking: Same as with the violence. Get out as fast and as final as possible. If she is invading your space or popping when you least expect it, there’s a good chance that she’s watching you when you don’t even know it. Zero tolerance on this issue too. It will not end up with an 80’s teen movie ending of you professing your undying love in front of the whole student body and a life of happily ever after. It could very well end up with law enforcement involvement.
  • MARRIAGE! Call it “commitment”. Call it “settling down”. Call it by any number or names and what it all boils down to is you with a ring on your finger and a leash around your neck. This is the biggie when it comes to warning signs. This was NOT the reason you took the sugar daddy path in the first place. This is exactly OPPOSITE of why you took the sugar daddy path. If you’re like a lot of us more mature males, you’ve tried marriage before and found it lacking. What makes you think it will be any different this time? Not only do you have to deal with all the limitations on your freedoms involved with a traditional marriage, you now have to deal with all the issues that arise from your age differences. If your sugar baby starts talking about “the future”, RUN! Run as fast and as far as you possibly can. This way leads to madness and despair. You know, you’ve been there before.


In the 60’s they said “If it feels good, do it”. The guiding principle in your sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship should be “if it doesn’t feel good, DON’T DO IT”. If you’re not getting the “beneficial” part out of your “mutually beneficial relationship” anymore, then end it. Life really is too short to be somewhere you’re not happy.

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