They say every person is different. While this is true to a certain degree, there are also certain traits that are common for every woman to look for in a man. Many of these traits happen to be more prevalent in an older man than in a younger man; lucky you.


Money: Yes it may be a sad fact of life that money plays such an important part in a relationship, but it is still a fact. Even the most free love, young hippy-chick you meet is still going to have bills to pay. She’s still going to need to put food on her table and clothes on her back. This is not a bad thing. It’s just how it is. That’s okay for you. Statistics say you HAVE more money than young men. You’ve worked harder and you’ve planned smarter than any twenty- year old that she’s liable to meet on the street. You are at a time in your life where you’re not struggling every paycheck to paycheck to make ends meet. Ask yourself, what did you work so hard for if not to be able to enjoy the finer things in life. What could be finer than the company of a young vibrant woman? Relax, pick up the check and enjoy. That’s what life is all about.

Security: This has more to do with how you react to the trials of life than it does with whether or not you’ve started a checking account with her name on it. Security is all about how a woman feels in your presence. It doesn’t mean you have to be Bruce Lee or Chuck Norris and take her to the seediest parts of town to show how you can beat down a mugger. It does mean that you should carry yourself with your head held high and look everyone in the eye. You’re not afraid to speak to anyone. You’re too mature and have been through too much to be some brooding, mumbling, wimp of a human being. So don’t be. Be bold in your actions and your decision making. She’ll love you for it.

Confidence: This is how you provide that sense of security we talked about earlier. You know that, as far as the ups and downs of life go, “this too shall pass”. Not to sound too much like a t-shirt slogan, but you’ve been there and done that. You understand that whatever happens in life you just have to deal with it the best you can and go on. There’s no reason to throw dramatic tantrums or to sulk. That’s not what a real man does. That’s what little boys do. If you want your sugar baby to be hopelessly enamored of you, then don’t let things worry you, even if they do. A real man doesn’t wring his hands and fall into a pit of self-pity and despair; he takes action to fix the issue at hand. That’s no problem for you. You’ve been doing it for decades. You fought and you’ve won most of the battles in your life. The ones that you’ve lost, you’ve learned to live with these and move on. These qualities are sadly lacking in the young “men” of today. It seems that so many of them wish to live their lives with a “victim” mentality and wallow in their misery. This is not attractive to a young woman, to say the least.

Intelligence: You’re smart even if you’re not book smart. You’ve been around long enough that the sheer volume of your experiences will outweigh the limited book knowledge of a younger man. Use this to your advantage without being an arrogant asshole. Whatever you do, don’t make her feel stupid. That’s one sure way to end up sleeping alone. Be interesting. Be fun. Be “chock full o’trivia” even. But be considerate, in everything you do and say.

You’re not needy or clingy: In the movie “Fast Times At Ridgemont High”, this was referred to as “The Attitude”. The attitude dictated that “you don’t care if she comes, stays, lays or prays. Whatever happens, your toes were still tapping”. These classic words are just as true today as they were back then. You’re sugar baby needs to view you as somewhat of a challenge. Show a little aloofness. You don’t hang on her every word or movement. You’re not always available for her at a moment’s notice. These are attractive to a woman. You know how to let a woman know that you DESIRE her, that you WANT her, but you don’t NEED her. This is so different than what she’s used to: young boys who act like the will lay down and die if she’s not stuck up their ass twenty-four hours a day. This is why she needs you…because you DON’T need her.

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