We’ve already covered a lot of ground about how to attract the type of women you want to meet and how to avoid the ones you don’t. Now we’re going to delve into what you need to do once you’ve attracted them and have started interacting in order to ensure the highest possible hookup rate on sites such as Establishedmen.com.


 

Your First Impression is the Most Important

Your first contact with a potential sugar baby is the most critical phase in the game. What happens during this interaction with either move you from where you are now towards meeting in person and having hot sex or it will turn her off and she’ll be gone before you can blink. Just remember that it is all about consistency. She is testing the waters to see if you come across the same way she’s been imagining you from your profile. If she was attracted to your profile enough to initiate contact, all you have to do is maintain that persona, and you’re in.
 

Don’t be a Doormat

Remember that you are dealing with a very specific type of woman and that she is looking for a very specific type of man. Unlike run of the mill dating sites like match.com, most of the women on sugar daddy sites are well aware that their looks are their greatest asset, and they are perfectly ok with that. Not only that, but they are also looking for men who are in charge, confident, and commanding. Of course, you don’t want to be a jerk; that will totally backfire. But you also don’t want to come across like the type of guy who will do absolutely anything for someone he doesn’t even know.
 

Move from Online to Texting ASAP

In order to move as quickly as possible towards an in-person physical relationship, you want to move the majority of your communication offline and into texting as soon as possible. The longer you keep talking to a young woman online without being assertive about moving things along, the less likely it is that it will ever happen. Remember that for most people in their early twenties, texting is their primary mode of communication. Twenty-something’s rarely use their phones for actual phone calls. So keep her attention by sending her captivating and interesting text messages. If you’re not sure what types of text messages will work on these women, here are a few ideas to jumpstart your creativity.

“I can’t wait to meet you, but Thursday is the soonest I can make that happen. I’m in Puerto Vallarta until then.”

“I can tell that there’s more to you than meets the eye. I love it when a pretty face is paired with a beautiful mind.”

“I’m so sorry that I’ve missed two of your calls now! Business is booming, and I’ve been in meetings nonstop this week. I’ll call you when I get home tonight so that we can have a long, uninterrupted conversation.”

“I’m in India on business, which made me wonder if you like Indian food. Do you? If so, I know the best little place to take you when I get back.”
 

The common theme in these texts is that all of them express and interest in her. They are mildly apologetic about being so hard to pin down, but they all don’t insinuate in any way that you’d be willing to change your lifestyle for her. All of the texts imply that you are busy, powerful, and involved in exciting work and travel endeavors.

When you adhere to these guidelines for interacting with younger women, you will have them eating out of the palm of your hand. She’ll be chomping at the bit to meet you face to face, which gives you leverage and keeps you in the driver’s seat.